I
forget who it was who, when asked whether he preferred Martha or
Mary, said:
“Before dinner, Martha; afterwards, definitely Mary!”
“Before dinner, Martha; afterwards, definitely Mary!”
Me,
I’ve always felt a bit sorry for Martha.
There she was, desperate to get all these men fed,
There she was, desperate to get all these men fed,
and
her sister isn’t helping.
And when she asks Jesus to send her in,
And when she asks Jesus to send her in,
she
just gets told that Mary has “chosen the better part”.
Yet
it was Martha who, on another occasion, caused Jesus to declare:
“I am the resurrection and the life.
“I am the resurrection and the life.
Those
who believe in me, even though they die, will live,
and
everyone who lives and believes in me will never die.”
And Martha herself gave us that wonderful statement of faith:
“Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Messiah,
And Martha herself gave us that wonderful statement of faith:
“Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Messiah,
the
Son of God,
the
one coming into the world.”
Martha was seriously a woman of faith.
And she wanted to show her love to the Lord by providing him and his disciples with a really good meal.
Maybe she overdid it –
the Lord might have preferred Martha’s company, even if it did mean dining on bread and cheese, and perhaps a few olives.
Martha was seriously a woman of faith.
And she wanted to show her love to the Lord by providing him and his disciples with a really good meal.
Maybe she overdid it –
the Lord might have preferred Martha’s company, even if it did mean dining on bread and cheese, and perhaps a few olives.
The
family at Bethany has many links in the Bible.
Some people have identified Mary as the woman who poured ointment all over Jesus’ feet in the house of Simon the Leper –
and because he lived in Bethany –
Some people have identified Mary as the woman who poured ointment all over Jesus’ feet in the house of Simon the Leper –
and because he lived in Bethany –
Simon the Leper, that
is, not Jesus –
some
people have also said that he was married to Martha.
We don’t know.
We don’t know.
At that, some people
have said that Jesus was married to Mary; again, we don’t
know.
What we do know is that Martha and Mary were sisters,
What we do know is that Martha and Mary were sisters,
and
that they had a beloved brother, called Lazarus.
We do know that on one occasion Mary poured her expensive perfume all over the feet of the Lord –
whether this was the same Mary as in the other accounts or a different one isn’t quite clear.
But whatever, they seem to have been a family that Jesus knew well,
We do know that on one occasion Mary poured her expensive perfume all over the feet of the Lord –
whether this was the same Mary as in the other accounts or a different one isn’t quite clear.
But whatever, they seem to have been a family that Jesus knew well,
a
home where he knew he was welcome,
and
dear friends whose grief he shared when Lazarus died,
even
though he knew that God would raise him.
Lazarus, I mean, not Jesus, this time!
Lazarus, I mean, not Jesus, this time!
In
some ways the story “works” better if the woman who poured
ointment on Jesus’ feet in the house of Simon the Leper and this
Mary
are
one and the same person,
as
we know that the woman in Simon’s house was, or had been,
some
kind of loose woman that a pious Jew wouldn’t normally associate
with.
Now she has repented and been forgiven,
Now she has repented and been forgiven,
and
simply adores Jesus, who made that possible for her.
And she seems to have been taken back into her sister’s household, possibly rather on sufferance.
And she seems to have been taken back into her sister’s household, possibly rather on sufferance.
But
then she does nothing but sit at Jesus’ feet, listening to
him.
Back then, this simply was Not Done.
Only men were thought to be able to learn,
Back then, this simply was Not Done.
Only men were thought to be able to learn,
women
were supposed not to be capable.
Actually, I have a feeling that the Jews thought that only Jewish free men were able to learn.
They would thank God each morning that they had not been made a woman, a slave or a Gentile.
And even though St Paul had sufficient insight to be able to write that “In Christ, there is neither male nor female, slave nor free, Jew nor Gentile”,
Actually, I have a feeling that the Jews thought that only Jewish free men were able to learn.
They would thank God each morning that they had not been made a woman, a slave or a Gentile.
And even though St Paul had sufficient insight to be able to write that “In Christ, there is neither male nor female, slave nor free, Jew nor Gentile”,
thus
at a stroke disposing of the prayer he’d been taught to make daily,
it’s taken us all a very long time to work that out,
and recent events would
show we haven’t really worked it out yet!
Anyway,
the point is that Mary, by sitting at Jesus’ feet like that,
was
behaving in rather an outrageous fashion.
Totally blatant, like throwing herself at him.
He might have felt extremely uncomfortable,
Totally blatant, like throwing herself at him.
He might have felt extremely uncomfortable,
and
it’s quite possible that his disciples did.
Martha certainly did, which was one of the reasons why she asked Jesus to send Mary through to help in the kitchen.
Martha certainly did, which was one of the reasons why she asked Jesus to send Mary through to help in the kitchen.
But
Jesus replied:
“Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
“Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
Mary,
with all her history, was now thirsty for the Word of God.
Jesus wanted to be able to give Mary what she needed,
Jesus wanted to be able to give Mary what she needed,
the
teaching that only he could provide.
He would have liked to have given it to Martha, too,
He would have liked to have given it to Martha, too,
if only Martha could be
persuaded that they’d be quite happy with bread and cheese.
But Martha wasn’t
ready.
Not then.
Later on, yes, after Lazarus had died, but not then.
Not then.
Later on, yes, after Lazarus had died, but not then.
In
many ways, Martha and Mary represent the two different sides of
spirituality, perhaps even of Christianity.
Mary, wrapped up in sitting at the feet of her Lord, learning from him, listening to him,
Mary, wrapped up in sitting at the feet of her Lord, learning from him, listening to him,
was
perhaps so heavenly-minded she was of no earthly use.
Martha, rather the reverse.
She was so wrapped up in doing something for Jesus
Martha, rather the reverse.
She was so wrapped up in doing something for Jesus
that
she couldn’t see the importance of taking time out to sit at Jesus’
feet and listen.
Or if she could, it wasn’t something she wanted to do while there was work that needed to be done.
She expressed her love for Jesus by wanting to feed him,
Or if she could, it wasn’t something she wanted to do while there was work that needed to be done.
She expressed her love for Jesus by wanting to feed him,
wanting
to work for him.
All
of us, I think, are like either Martha or Mary in some ways.
Many of us are more or less integrated, of course,
Many of us are more or less integrated, of course,
finding
time both to sit at Jesus’ feet in worship, adoration and learning,
and time to serve Him in practical ways,
mostly
through working either in the Church or in the Community.
Others
of us are less balanced.
We spend our time doing one or the other, but not both.
Mind you, it usually balances out within the context of a church;
the people who do the praying and listening,
We spend our time doing one or the other, but not both.
Mind you, it usually balances out within the context of a church;
the people who do the praying and listening,
the
people who do the practical jobs that need to be done around the
place,
and
the people who do both.
And perhaps in an area, too, it balances out,
And perhaps in an area, too, it balances out,
with
some churches doing far more in the way of work in the community than
others,
but
perhaps less in the way of prayer meetings,
Alpha,
or similar courses
and
other Bible studies.
And so it goes on.
And so it goes on.
Our
Old Testament reading brings this need for balance very much to the
fore-front.
The Lord, speaking through the prophet Amos,
The Lord, speaking through the prophet Amos,
expresses
his disgust with those who have failed to be honest and upright in
their dealings:
‘Listen to this, you that trample on the needy
and try to destroy the poor of the country. You say to yourselves,
“We can hardly wait for the holy days to be over so that we can
sell our grain. When will the Sabbath end, so that we can start
selling again? Then we can overcharge, use false measures, and fix
the scales to cheat our customers. We can sell worthless wheat at a
high price. We'll find someone poor who can't pay his debts, not
even the price of a pair of sandals, and we'll buy him as a slave.”’
And then, after a paragraph of warning of physical
misery, comes the terrible warning: “The time is coming when I will
send famine on the land. People will be hungry, but not for bread;
they will be thirsty, but not for water. They will hunger and thirst
for a message from the Lord. I, the Sovereign Lord, have spoken.
People will wander from the Dead Sea to the Mediterranean and then on
around from the north to the east. They will look everywhere for a
message from the Lord, but they will not find it.”
“They
will look everywhere for a message from the Lord, but they will not
find it.” The people started off with dishonest measures, with
forcing the poor into slavery, and end up longing to hear from the
Lord, but the heavens have been closed off to them.
Why
am I reminded of current events? This whole mess in our country,
everybody wondering what will happen next; will we really have to
leave the EU, and what are the implications if we do? Parliament
going into a tailspin and leaders resigning left, right and centre –
well, mostly left and right, actually; I think the Liberal Democrat
leader is still there. Or he was when I was writing this, but who
knows?
I
don’t want to go into detail about the causes of this whole
disaster; you know them as well as I do. The road this country has
chosen to take over the past 50 years hasn’t helped – the erosion
of our manufacturing base, the disappearance of industries such as
shipbuilding, consumer electronics, aircraft manufacture and most of
the vehicle construction industry. The fact that we were lied
to, over and over again, by politicians and by the Murdoch press....
you know all that as well as I do. And I’m finding it incredibly
difficult to work out what to say, anyway, as I’m so aware that my
experience as a White, middle-class, elderly British woman is so very
different to so much of many of your experiences. What, after all,
do I know?
But
whatever our experiences, however afraid of the future we might be,
can we do anything about it?
None
of us knows what is going to happen tomorrow; we can’t see round
the bend in the road. But there is much we can do – not least, to
pray for our country, and for our leaders; for Mrs May as she settles
in to the job of being Prime Minister, and the Cabinet she is going
to have to choose – and the awful decision she faces as to whether
and when to trigger Article 50, and whether she can lawfully do this
without the consent of Parliament as a whole... she needs our
prayers, I reckon, even if we wouldn’t dream of voting for either
her or her party!
Those
of us whose Christianity is more like Martha’s will want to get
involved in many different ways; those of us who are like Mary will
want to spend time in prayer and perhaps even fasting for this
country we call home.
We
don’t know the future; but we do know the One who holds the future
in his hands. We may long and long for a word that doesn’t come,
but we know that we have not been abandoned. We know that we may sit
at His feet and drink of His word, and we may, must and will trust
Him for tomorrow. Amen.
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