This was shorter than usual because we were celebrating the end of Black History Month, so needed to make sure we didn't overrun too badly. Which we didn't!
Today, we are celebrating the end of Black History month, 2023.
I
hope that most of our liturgy is reflecting that, and we will have
some more contributions to our celebration later on in the
service.
It’s also Bible Sunday;
when I was a girl,
this was celebrated during Advent, but they changed the calendar
around some years ago now, so now it’s celebrated on this Sunday.
I
had to learn the collect, the special prayer for the day, off by
heart when I was a schoolgirl!
I used to love “help us so to
hear them, to read, mark, learn and inwardly digest them….”
And
it’s that which we have to do with the Scriptures, isn’t
it?
Read, mark, learn and inwardly digest them,
until they
become part of us, part of who we are, part of our lives.
We are
told to let the Word of Christ dwell in us richly!
But,
having said that, we do have to be aware
that our reading of the Bible is always going to be flawed,
we’re
always going to read it through the lens of our own prejudice,
our
own experience, our own political viewpoint.
Or,
if we read with the help of a daily commentary, of that commentator’s
prejudice, experience, political viewpoint, and so on.
But,
by and large, we want to internalise
Scripture;
to let it dwell in us richly.
And
I rather think the passage
that [the reader] read to us earlier is one that we really need
to internalise: “You shall love the Lord your God
with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.
This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it:
You shall love your neighbour as yourself.”
Love.
Of
course, there are all sorts of different kinds of love, and our
English language, unusually, doesn’t have different words for the
sort of love we give to our parents, our partners,
our children, our friends, even strawberries or our teddy bear!
Greek
does, which is helpful, and the word it uses for loving God is
“agape”;
it’s not used anywhere else.
St Paul gives
that wonderful definition of agape love in his letter to the
Corinthians, you may remember:
“Love is patient;
love
is kind;
love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.
It
does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or
resentful;
it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in
the truth.
It bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes
all things,
endures all things.
Love never ends.”
Pretty
amazing, really.
This is the sort of love that Jesus was talking
about, when he told us to love God with all of our being, and to love
our neighbours as ourselves.
We
need to be centred on God, not on ourselves.
But how do
we do that?
After all, most people manage pretty well
without God, and even those of us who try to be God’s people spend
vast swathes of time doing other things,
sleeping,
for one, or cooking, or working….
We are, of course,
still God’s people while doing all those things,
but it’s
not often at the forefront of our minds!
In
John’s first letter, he equates
loving God with loving our neighbour,
saying, basically, you
can’t have one without the other.
“Those
who say, `I love God', and hate their brothers or sisters, are
liars
for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they
have seen,
cannot love God whom they have not seen.
The
commandment we have from him is this:
those who love God must
love their brothers and sisters also.”
But then, just to
get us even more confused, he says
“Everyone who believes that
Jesus is the Christ has been born of God,
and everyone who loves
the parent loves the child.
By this we know that we love the
children of God,
when we love God and obey his
commandments.”
So for John, loving God and loving our
neighbour,
our brothers and sisters,
are one and the same
thing.
And, indeed, that God's love for us is first and foremost
–
our love for God is just a response to that.
And
I think he's probably right.
We love, we are told, because
God first loved us!
The love of God has been poured into our
hearts by the Holy Spirit.
And without God, our human
loves can be desperately flawed.
Parents can be overly
possessive of their children, not allowing them to grow and develop
in their own way;
I
don’t need to tell you how often romantic love can go wrong;
and
even friendship can be more about excluding another person or group
of people than anything else.
But
if Love is the most important commandment in the Bible, then we
mustn’t exclude anybody, for whatever reason.
Not even if they
hold views we find abhorrent.
It’s
not always easy, of course –
how do we pray for politicians
whose views we loathe?
And
how easy is it to forgive, and to love, those who have rejected us
for whatever reason?
I know my experience is peanuts compared to
what many of you have gone through, but I was rejected by my peers at
boarding-school a lot of the time, and those were not always happy
years.
And
even though we are all friends now, over 50 years later, I still
have
to bite my tongue on occasion!
Loving and forgiving those who
have hurt us, or those whose views we find abhorrent, or those who
have inflicted gross damage on the world –
it really isn’t
easy.
And I really think it’s only through God’s help that
we can.
We are, we are told, to love our neighbours as
ourselves;
and sometimes that is a case of “pity the poor
neighbour”.
We are often either totally self-absorbed, or we
fail to value ourselves as we should.
And, there again, it’s
only through God’s help we
can .
Just
as we can’t love
God without God’s having first loved us, so we can’t love our
neighbours, or ourselves, without God’s help.
It’s all one,
really.
We need to allow the word of God to dwell in us richly,
to allow God the Holy Spirit to indwell us;
we need to allow the
Spirit to grow us and change us and teach us to love.
Amen.
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